The Loving Energy Newsletter Snake Issue #3
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1. Hello Birthday!
Hello Everyone!
Welcome to The Loving Energy Newsletter Snake Issue #3 which is all about birthdays!
My birthday was earlier this month and I decided to do something different. I decided that I would not announce my birthday to PhotoMan and see what happen.
Growing up, my mum would announce everyone’s birthday at least a week in advance in case we forgot. And we do, I mean, I do, forget because I was so used to my mum’s reminders. My mum’s birthday was last month and I forgot. Every year around my mum’s birthday, which is after Chinese New Year and before my own birthday, I would ask my brother for the exact date. This year, I asked him about a week too late.
Last year when I announced my upcoming birthday to PhotoMan, he said, ‘Yes, I know. You think I don’t remember but I do. I was going to surprise you.’
I wouldn’t have minded if he didn’t remember. My mum wasn’t angry with me and so there was no valid reasons why I should be angry with PhotoMan should he forget about my birthday. Really, I thought, I wouldn’t mind some peace and quiet. It can be stressful sometimes to have to think of something special to do to match the specialness of the day one was born.
PhotoMan spends most of the week at the village house with my father-in-law who has Alzheimer’s and needs a lot of care. I was prepared to be on my own on my special day. PhotoMan happened to come home the night before my birthday because he had to do something in town the next day. Interesting, I thought. Did he remember?
The next day when I came home from the gym, PhotoMan and Deka had gone to the beach and I noticed that PhotoMan had fixed the balcony door which couldn’t close properly for several months. I had asked again and again for him to fix it because when it didn’t close properly, it let in a lot of traffic noise which bothered me when I was making audio recordings. Was it a coincidence that he picked my birthday to fix the door for me? Or did he remember?
My birthday turned into my favourite thing to do – solving mystery! I started getting excited and had to remind myself again and again not to mention anything.
Sometimes PhotoMan would go back to the village as soon as he finishes what he has to do in town. I asked PhotoMan his plans for the day. He said he would stay for dinner with me because he already arranged a village friend to serve my father-in-law lunch and dinner for the day. I was a bit annoyed because I wanted to order takeaway for dinner and I didn’t want his opinion of what to order. Whatever, I thought, I would order whatever I wanted and ignore him in case he protested. I was nearly half a century old and I could decide on what to have for dinner.
Maybe he knew. Maybe he was pretending not to remember. Maybe he was playing some mind game with me. I must not assume that he didn’t know for if he did know, I would have been the loser of this game.
After PhotoMan went to town and back, he said he was going to town again to have his watch fixed.
‘May I come for the ride?’ I asked because I felt like going for a ride.
‘Of course!’ PhotoMan seemed happy with this development.
A bustling little café caught my eye and I asked PhotoMan if he wanted to have a coffee. He said ‘yes’. ‘Yes’ to café is a 50-50 for PhotoMan and so his ‘yes’ didn’t imply whether he remembered my birthday or not.
The little café seemed packed full. I told PhotoMan I would like to have cake and I would investigate if they had nice cakes there. They didn’t. We went to a café which I liked instead and they had cakes there.
PhotoMan didn’t make any comments about me wanting cake. He should have. I enjoy making cakes but I seldom eat cakes. I enjoy a vast variety of unnutritious food items but I almost never ask for cakes. PhotoMan must be onto something.
He didn’t say anything when the cakes came. He didn’t say anything at all as we ate our cakes. He is good, I thought. Or maybe he just forgot. Either way, I had fun allowing this mystery to unfold.
He also didn’t comment on my phone receiving an abnormal number of notifications. Facebook announced my birthday to my 1400 friends and some of them messaged me happy birthday.
It was when we got home when the mystery was solved. The village friend who was a helper for my father-in-law phoned PhotoMan to ask him something. PhotoMan had speakerphone on and I could understand part of the Greek conversation. At the end of the call, she asked him to wish me χρόνια πολλά which means ‘many years’ and it’s a common phrase that people use to wish each other happy birthday or other important days.
‘What? Stephanie? Why?’ PhotoMan asked.
I didn’t catch what the friend said because I was too busy laughing. She probably told him he was in trouble because PhotoMan glanced at me and reported that I was laughing.
‘Why didn’t you tell me?’ PhotoMan asked.
‘To see what happened. Would you have preferred to know?’
‘Yes, of course! I would have liked to do something with you!’ PhotoMan exclaimed.
‘But look at what happened: You somehow came home yesterday and are spending the day with me. You fixed the balcony door. We had cakes. When there is love, every day is a birthday!’
Plus, I got my game of mystery and a good laugh.
May you have love and a good laugh, always!
Love,
Stephanie 石 The Loving Energy
In the blog article ‘”Tell her” – a guidance for love to bloom’, I tell a Sekhem session story in which a guidance for love to bloom came through. The guidance is simple and is applicable for all sorts of relationships.
2. The Divine Reveals Love and Bliss
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My little birthday episode reminds me of something Anita Moorjani said in her book ‘Dying to be me’.
She wrote, ‘When I’m being love, I don’t get drained, and I don’t need people to behave a certain way in order to feel cared for or to share my magnificence with them. They’re automatically getting my love as a result of me being my true self. And when I am nonjudgemental of myself, I feel that way toward others…’
‘When I awoke into my infinite self, I was amazed to understand that my life could be dramatically different just by realizing that I am love, and I always have been. I don’t have to do anything to deserve it. Understanding this means that I’m working with life-force energy, whereas performing at being loving is working against it.’
There were years when I felt stressed that I had to do something special for my birthday, and that I had to be happy. This year, I decided I would enjoy my day whatever happened and I allowed it to unfold. It became the most blissful day ever. It shows that just like we are love and we don’t have to perform at being loving, bliss is also our natural state and we don’t have to try to make it happen.
3. Clean Body Self Love
The Thought of the Moon Cycle is 潔身自愛 Clean Body Self Love.
The idiom 潔身自愛 Clean Body Self Love started as潔身自好 Clean Body Self Good which originated from teaching of Mencius, a Chinese Confucian philosopher.
Mencius spoke of a legendary saint who was recruited by a wise and able emperor. There were rumours that the saint worked as a cook to please the emperor with his favourite dishes in order to get the emperor’s favour. Mencius said a righteous person would never corrupt themselves in anyway to get what they wanted. Instead, they always 潔身自好 Clean Body Self Good which means they would keep themselves clean and they stay away from corruption or people with bad influence and they would not pay attention to anything that is not righteous.
Mencius commented that it was rare to have a righteous person working with an emperor. Throughout history, there had been righteous government officials whom the public looked up to but often, these officials were either framed and prosecuted because they refused to associate with corrupt people, or they resigned or even ended their own life when they were forced to act without integrity.
Mencius said, ‘修身、齊家、治國、平天下 Cultivate oneself, regulate the family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world.’ If we want to bring peace to the world, we need to first of all cultivate ourselves before we can bring positive influence to our family, the country or the world.
During this Moon Cycle, remind yourself to 潔身自愛 Clean Body Self Love, and observe if you are keeping yourself ‘clean’ by staying away from corruption or people with bad influence, bearing in mind that being harsh with yourself or putting yourself down are some of the bad influence we picked up from authority figures when we were young.
It’s not easy to know what self-love is when we grew up in a culture that didn’t value this most essential quality. In this video, Louise Hay shared 10 guidelines on how to love ourselves.
4. Sekhem Pyramid Transmission – Edition Bliss
I never know how exactly a Sekhem treatment can benefit my clients and I rely on them to tell me what they noticed. I was a flight attendant for many years and an ex-colleague told me what she thought was the result of one of the Sekhem treatments she received from me.
First, let me describe the scenario to you. Before every flight, we had to report to the headquarters minimum 90 minutes before flight departure time. Everyone arrived earlier than that because pre-flight briefing started 90 minutes before departure time and if we weren’t in the briefing room before that, we gave bad impression to the inflight manager and other senior colleagues. We flew with different set of colleagues on every flight and our life could be hell if one of the senior crew members had an evil eye on us.
We usually stopped by the mailbox room to collect mails which included a must-read newsletter which featured news like changes in service or safety procedures and we could be quizzed on these items during briefing. If we didn’t know the answer, again, doomsday. By the way, we got quizzed during every briefing for service and safety procedures and if we didn’t answer correctly, we could be grounded, literally.
Then there was the laundry service counter where we dropped off soiled uniform and picked up fresh ones. Sometimes we had to visit uniform department to exchange for uniform items. There were the bank and ATM machines which were frequented by flight attendants. There was a food court and some of us like to have a meal before flight. If we were unlucky we could be called to the office for various reasons, such as customer complaints.
Many flight attendants would also use the company computers to swap flights. Since there would be at least a few hours where we couldn’t use the internet, we tried to do as much as we could while we could. We took flight swapping very seriously, like a life and death matter, because we all liked to have control in where we go and our day-offs.
The company headquarters was a stressful place and the half an hour or so before flight briefing was anxiety-ridden.
Not for my client, who reported that when she went to work few days after our session, she got a coffee from the coffee stand, and she floated through task after task without looking at her watch at all. She even had a lovely chat when she bumped into someone she knew. She only looked at the time when she somehow found herself in front of the briefing room 5 minutes before the briefing start time.
‘Oh!’ She causally exclaimed to herself and continued to enjoy her bliss throughout the flight.
‘I was so relaxed and it was so unlike me at work. You know what it’s like. It wasn’t like that at all. I even tried to feel some tension but I couldn’t. But I wasn’t surprised. It seemed so natural to be this way.’
Ah! Bliss!
I cannot think of another place as blissful as the Unicornland! Few years ago, a Unicorn friend came and took me to the Unicornland. It was so wonderful there that I kept returning. I invite you to share this amazing place with me in the Visiting The Unicornland Guided Meditation video!
Sekhem Pyramid Transmission started when an idea came to me to share Sekhem in a simple way. It is not how I normally facilitate a Sekhem treatment. What I do with Sekhem Pyramid Transmission is that I channel a certain amount of Sekhem energy for you. I also create a pyramid for you as sacred place, to be placed around you when you are receiving the transmission. My Divine Spirit Team fills the pyramid with elements and colours according to the moon cycle’s collective energy need.
You can receive this transmission at your convenience during this moon cycle. Here’s what you need to do in order to receive this transmission:
1. Get comfortable by either sitting with your back supported or lying down on your back for relaxation and circulation.
2. Give intention to the effect of ‘I would like to receive the Snake Issue #3 Sekhem Pyramid Transmission now, to my highest good and will.’
3. Relax for about half an hour.
That’s it!
This time, my Divine Spirit Team filled the Pyramid with vibration of Ocean, White Sky, Sapphire, Diamond, Green Topaz and Chili. Look up the properties of these items if you feel drawn to.
You may or may not feel anything. It’s fine! Having sensation is not a requirement. The only requirement is that you are willing to receive. Please remember to say ‘to my highest good and will’ so you know you are in control.
If you have any questions, please feel free to email me here. I certainly would love to hear about your experience!
If you want to share the gift of Sekhem Pyramid Transmission with your friends, please send them the link https://newsletter.thelovingenergy.com/ to subscribe for The Loving Energy Newsletter.
5. I am as blessed as the East Sea!
The You Are Amazing Affirmation of this Moon Cycle is ‘I am blessed like the East Sea’.
福如東海 Blessed As East Sea is a traditional idiom we say to people on their birthday. East Sea refers to East China Sea which covers an area of about 770,000 square kilometres. East Sea is used as a simile in this idiom not because of its vastness but because of the following legend.
Long long time ago, there was a drought in a region in China. The crops failed and villagers were hungry and cold. A brave Young Man went to the East Sea to try his luck and caught a huge fish which he cut into pieces and shared with the villagers. He kept only a small piece of the head for himself.
The Young Man went home to prepare the fish head for dinner and when it was almost ready, he heard a knock on the door. He opened the door to a rough-looking old woman wearing ragged clothes begging for food. Without anything else to offer, the Young Man served her the fish head while he stayed hungry.
The old woman regained her strength after the meal and she kneeled down and kowtowed to the Young Man to show her gratitude. When she got up, she became a beautiful Young Goddess. She introduced herself as the third daughter of the Dragon King of the Great East Sea. She informed the Young Man a way to save the villagers, ‘When a kind person drinks three mouthfuls of water from the East Sea, they can dig for water in any land and they will have all their desires fulfilled.’
The Young Man lead the villagers to the East Sea to drink sea water. Upon return, wherever they dug, water came up to fill the hole. Soon there was a river flowing and the river contained sweet and refreshing water. The villagers never had shortage of food again. The Young Goddess stayed in the village and married the Young Man. Happy Ever After.
During this Moon Cycle, say ‘I am as blessed as the East Sea’ daily and often to remind yourself that you are blessed and even through the toughest of times, be kind and never lose hope.
We have reached the end of the Snake Issue #3! The next issue will arrive at your mailbox on the 28th of April (Monday) which is the First Day of the Fourth Month in the Chinese Calendar. Yes, the next New Moon day.
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