The Loving Energy Newsletter Dragon Issue #10
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1. Hello Perfect Match!
Hello Everyone!
Welcome to The Loving Energy Newsletter Dragon Issue #10!
Recently PhotoMan and I attended an intimate wedding party in the village where we reside part-time. I absolutely love weddings because they always bring my focus to the lovey-dovey-ness of my own marriage. This time, while choosing what to wear, I realized something major about our union – PhotoMan saw and knew a side of me way before I did!
I have many dresses but they didn’t seem right for me anymore and I’m not sure if they ever did. I bought them because they were beautiful and I looked good in them. I seldom wore them because they never felt comfortable to me and I felt I had to be a certain way when I wore them, with the right handbag and the right shoes and the right makeup. Just thinking about it all exhausts me.
In the end I wore a miniskirt, a copper-colour top that made my skin glow, Greek sandals and a shawl to keep me warm. I completed my outfit with a golden handbag in the shape of a sausage dog. I knew I could wear whatever I wanted and my gay friends who were getting married wouldn’t have minded. They had broken too many barriers to restrict others.
And then it dawned on me how it took so many years for me to figure out what I feel comfortable wearing whereas PhotoMan has always known. The first time he bought me clothes as a gift, he chose a set of silk bomber jacket and miniskirt in camouflage. I was greatly puzzled by these items because they weren’t even in my peripheral. Eventually I grew to like the skirt so much I worn it till it was torn. If I see it now, I would definitely put it in my shopping basket.
Growing up, I had felt uncomfortable in most clothes and never liked anything. The only clothes I was comfortable in was the P.E. school uniform – cotton t-shirt and volleyball shorts. Even basketball shorts were too long for me. My friends observed that I was always pulling the basketball shorts up and they thought I should have cut them short to save myself some trouble. When the team bought matching warmup pants for the winter months, I almost never wore them because my legs were never cold and the extra fabric was so stifling.
Why didn’t I just stick to wearing shorts and miniskirts then? I didn’t know they were options and I didn’t know I was allowed to like them. I was told I should cover myself because only improper girls wore something that short and they put themselves in danger when they dressed improperly like that. I was told I was fat and that was another reason why I had to cover myself up with more fabric.
I did own one mini denim skirt when I was 14 years old. My mum and I went shopping with my aunt. There was a row of mini denim skirts and one of them drew my attention. My mum said ‘no’ right away. My aunt said, ‘She’s young. She can wear these things. If she doesn’t wear it now, when will she wear it? When she’s like us?’
I know when – when I live in Greece, where people seem to wear whatever they want, where I look out of place anyway no matter what I wear. I’m proud to report that I’m older than my mum and my aunt during the above shopping trip, and I’m still wearing miniskirts happily and comfortably.
I don’t know why I like miniskirts or short shorts. I just do. It’s like you can marry someone because you are a good-match, but you can’t fall in love with them and be a perfect match unless it’s meant to be.
May you find your perfect match in every way, always!
Stephanie 石 The Loving Energy
This is my wedding dress. It’s short and red. The shoes were 4 inches high and torturous.
This is my wedding dress for our church wedding. You can read about why I wore a pink dress along other wedding titbits in my blog article Wedding Rings, Dress, Flowers and Foot.
This is my favourite wedding photo. Just our heads and the blessing from the church.
We went to the beautiful Chania, on the other side of my island, to buy Greek sandals from a very old shoemaker for our church wedding. When the shoemaker learnt that I was wearing them as my wedding shoes, he gave them to me as a gift.
2. The Divine Reveals My Cheekiness
The Divine Reveal (TDR) is a quantum health process that typically runs for 5 to 8 weeks (approx. 12-14 hours appointment time). Roos (Malka) Ahern was inspired by Anita Moorjani’s Near Death Experience (NDE) as detailed in her book ‘Dying To Be Me’ to create this unique modality for bringing phenomenal transformation to committed individuals. All sessions are conducted online via Zoom.
The first two steps of the TDR Process – The TDR Introductory Session and Dying To Be Me Book Discussion – are always free of charge so that you will have necessary information to decide if, and when, you want to engage in the whole process.
The whole TDR Process is currently on a ‘Pay What You Want’ basis. Yes, you can pay whatever amount you want during any of the steps of the process.
To read more about TDR, click here to go to my TDR page.
Want to jump right into the TDR Inquiry Process by scheduling a TDR Introductory Session? Click right here!
The intention for every TDR session is to bring clients to the realm where Anita Moorjani was during her NDE. Not bragging here but most everyone goes easily, partly because of all the preparations beforehand, partly because everyone knows well by then where they are going because they all have read Anita’s journey in detail from her book.
Often my clients feel a release right away. They feel peace and freedom. They feel loved. They feel Oneness with all and with Source. They feel love – the kind of love that is not of the physical reality.
We cannot promise clients that their experience would be the same as Anita’s experience though. They can never be the same because we are unique beings with unique qualities.
Take my own TDR experience as an example. I felt peace liked I had never felt before as soon as I entered into this new realm as my pure essence. Soon though, my journey took a fun turn. I felt cheeky! I had never thought cheekiness could be a high vibrational state but there I was. I felt so at ease with myself in that state. I felt innocent and pure.
I had always known this side of myself and I used to suppress it, thinking it bad to be cheeky. Not anymore!
If you want to reconnect with your true self like I have, sign up for a free TDR Introductory Session through using this link. I look forward to collaborating with you!
I have shared the video ‘What is Love? Day 1: Giggles – A short exercise to bring back the giggles’ quite a few times now because it is so good for us to unleash the giggles and return to our joyous self.
3. Judge not that ye be not judged
The Thought of the Moon Cycle is ‘Judge not that ye be not judged’.
PhotoMan and I were having coffees with his Greek Australian friend at Oakley, an area in Melbourne, Australia, that is full of Greek cafes and Greek people, when his friend called out to a woman wearing a full head of flowers and colourful clothing.
The woman came over. I wish I could be like her, wearing whatever she liked. My mum taught me to wear loose fitting black clothes so that I would not attract attention to myself. In other word, so that I could stay invisible.
‘How are you? How lovely are the flowers on your hair!’ The friend complimented.
‘Thank you. I’m better now. I like these flowers too, but I can hear people gossiping about me. It’s terrible.’
Turned out Greek people judge each other by what they wear, too.
I wonder why we do this to each other, as if whatever people wear can make another person blind and is such a crime.
A Course In Miracles says ‘Free will must lead to freedom. Judgement always imprisons.’ It explains that ‘when the Bible says “Judge not that ye be not judged,” it means that if you judge the reality of others you will be unable to avoid judging your own.”
During my TDR experience, when I was experiencing a state of non-judgement, I said to my facilitator that judgement stops all the fun because from the moment we make a judgement, we stop all other possibilities.
During this Moon Cycle, observe when you are making a judgement on yourself or others. What do you gain from making this judgement? Can you feel how restrictive you are being to yourself and others? What would happen if you let people or yourself be?
4. Sekhem Pyramid Transmission – Edition Freedom
A client who came for a Sekhem treatment told me he was experiencing a lot of stress from work even though he enjoyed his job in his family business. He felt he didn’t have time to do anything else after work ever since he started his own family.
When we were trying to set an intention for the session, he seemed not to know what he wanted. He was more interested in talking about books. I also noticed something interesting about him. He was attentive but I felt he wasn’t really there. I wondered why.
‘How about freedom? Would you like freedom?’ I asked.
‘Hm…’ He glanced at his wife who was there as the interpreter. His wife looked sad but didn’t say anything.
‘So, would you like freedom?’
‘Yes, I want freedom. But I don’t want to say because she is sad.’
‘I’m okay. I wasn’t okay but I’m better now.’ His wife said.
If a husband can give up his wish for freedom to please his wife, I don’t think there’s anything his wife needs to worry about. I don’t know what it means to have freedom for this client, but I know it’s definitely not abandoning his family or getting a mistress.
When it was time for the Sekhem treatment, I asked him if he knew what freedom felt like. He nodded with a big smile. I asked him to feel freedom for a minute or two as we began. This step is not necessary but I always ask my clients to feel their intention as if they are starting their own engine.
The Spirits said that the migraine he experienced was due to his mind needing expansion while it felt trapped. They said there were many things in his life, and not just work and family and he needed to spend time on what inspired him. He had been waking up with low energy because there was no joy in his life but duties and responsibilities.
There was no homework for him but the Spirits asked him to resume his reading and writing like he used to do before his marriage because reading and writing made him feel joy and free. He looked very happy with this guidance. I think his wife was happy about it too.
Sekhem Pyramid Transmission started when an idea came to me to share Sekhem in a simple way. It is not how I normally facilitate a Sekhem treatment. What I do with Sekhem Pyramid Transmission is that I channel a certain amount of Sekhem energy for you. I also create a pyramid for you as sacred place, to be placed around you when you are receiving the transmission. My Divine Spirit Team fills the pyramid with elements and colours according to the moon cycle’s collective energy need.
You can receive this transmission at your convenience during this moon cycle. Here’s what you need to do in order to receive this transmission:
1. Get comfortable by either sitting with your back supported or lying down on your back for relaxation and circulation.
2. Give intention to the effect of ‘I would like to receive the Dragon Issue #10 Sekhem Pyramid Transmission now, to my highest good and will.’
3. Relax for about half an hour.
That’s it!
This time, my Divine Spirit Team filled the Pyramid with vibration of Fire Hydrant Colour Rose, Dolphin, Charcoal and Prism. Look up the properties of these items if you feel drawn to.
You may or may not feel anything. It’s fine! Having sensation is not a requirement. The only requirement is that you are willing to receive. Please remember to say ‘to my highest good and will’ so you know you are in control.
If you have any questions, please feel free to email me here. I certainly would love to hear about your experience!
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5. I am free to change.
The You Are Amazing Affirmation of this Moon Cycle is ‘I am free to change’.
Few years ago, my mum gave me a once over and said, ‘How old are you now? Still wearing a little skirt like that?’
I returned the once over and said, ‘Your mum wore granny clothes. My mum wears trainers and jeans. That’s why I wear little skirts.’
Mum chuckled and never bothered me again.
During this Moon Cycle, say ‘I am free to change’ daily and often and recognize that we do not need to stay the same because of any restrictions that people placed on each other. We are free to become the most joyous version of ourselves.
In this video, Karolina Żebrowska, a self-proclaimed vintage style and fashion history geek, talks about some common fashion history myth. She mentions that women’s legs used to be very covered while breasts and shoulders were generously shown. She thinks that ‘considering breasts sexual isn’t a natural thing, but it’s something that the society taught us to do.’
We have reached the end of the Dragon Issue #10! The next issue will arrive at your mailbox on the 1st of December (Sunday) which is the First Day of the Eleventh Month in the Chinese Calendar. Yes, the next New Moon day.